The Secret Ingredient: How to Make Hot Play Happen
Dates: July 30-31, 10-5pm each day
You’ve taken the classes and bought the toys. You’ve learned the techniques and acquired the tools. But no matter how much you learn, practice or fantasize, something just isn’t clicking. Playing with your partner is fun, but you know more is possible.
Other classes will teach you how to throw a flogger, tie someone up, or give a great blowjob. But how do you get a scene started? How do you know if what you’re doing is what your partner wants? How do you get back on track when something goes wrong? And how do you stop worrying if you’re doing it right?
You know there’s something sexier, more fulfilling, life-altering… even transformational possible. Now, how do you get there?
In this intensive you will learn how to make hot play happen:
Discover the secret to co-creating great scenes and even better sex.
Confidently orchestrate exciting, passionate, sexy play that scratches exactly the itch you’re aiming for
Gain clarity about what drives your passions… so you can play with them in rich, surprising and fulfilling ways
Use your fantasies and desires to foster greater intimacy, joy and connection between you and your partner
Discover the art of leading and following to generate genuine, responsive, liberating experiences in the bedroom
Harness your creative energy and hunger for power and surrender
Here’s just a small sample of what we’ll cover:
How to make it safe to talk about fantasies and desires as a source of connection and intimacy
Stealth negotiation and how to generate scenes from everyday conversation
Transitioning from “regular life” to hot play
How to salvage a scene that goes sideways
What to listen for so that you understand what your partner REALLY wants from your play
Reading the subtext of non-verbal communication (and using it to both of your advantage)
Quick and easy ways of bringing more play and passion into your life
And much more…
Join renowned educators Marcia Baczynski and Midori for a transformative weekend like no other, dedicated to helping you create the kind of mind-bending, earth-shaking play you’ve always dreamed of.
Hours of Instruction
Saturday
- 9:30am - 10am Check-in
- 10am - 5pm Instruction
- 6pm - 8pm Social & Happy Hour. Please feel free to bring a guest!
Sunday
- 9:30am - 10am Check-in
- 10am - 5pm Instruction
- 5pm End of weekend
Program Includes
- Coffee, tea & light snacks
- Special workbook with original content.
- Saturday night social & happy hour. Please feel free to bring a guest. We will be joined by graduates of previous intensives. This evening is designed to connect you to a special circle of wonderful people who engage in creative living and authentic communications.
- If you'd like to bring your own snacks or foods, there will be a refridgerator to store them.
- $50 Transportation Discount. Discount with Lyft! This is an excellent ride share service. We love them and find them better than Uber for cost and quality of service. It's also much better than most SF Taxi serivce.
- You will need a smart phone
- Go to your app store or www.Lyft.com to download the app
- Set up your account
- Use the discount code [ MIDORI273844 ]
- You'll get up to $50 in free ride credits
ABOUT THE INSTRUCTORS
Marcia Baczynski is a internationally recognized expert on sexuality, communication and personal empowerment who works to provide people with practical tools to create extraordinary relationships. Her primary mission is to help people overcome shame and get in touch with what they truly want — romantically, sexually and relationally — even if it’s off the beaten path. As co-founder of Cuddle Party, the creator of The Good Girl Recovery Program, a sought-after presenter and in her private practice, she has worked with thousands of people and made hundreds of media appearances across the globe. Marcia brings wisdom, humor, and creativity to all aspects of her work, and offers a fresh perspective on love, sex and relationships. When she’s not writing, teaching or traveling, you can find her out in nature, practicing her rope skills on boats or in the woods.
Midori is a renowned educator and writer on sexuality. Dubbed “the super nova of kink” by Dan Savage, she emerged from the Sex Positive Movement in San Francisco in the early 1990’s, soon becoming a much sought after international presenter on sexuality, personal fulfillment and kinky adventures. She founded ForteFemme: Women's Dominance Intensive & Rope Dojo®
Her reputation as authority and leading expert on alternative pleasures stem not only from her unique and entertaining process of teaching concrete skills, but in her ability to deconstruct and distill complex matters of desire into surprisingly accessible lessons with eloquence and humanity. She’s known for tackling challenging topics with fresh and relevant insights. She calls this her “head-heart-hands” method to create a space where people are allowed individual self-exploration. Fundamentally she is motivated by helping people to create authentic and intimate relationships while emphasizing self actualization, shame reduction, acceptance and justice. When she's not traveling and teaching, Midori creates provocative and haunting art and performances.
