How to Make Hot Play Happen

More Sex. Hotter Play. Better Connection.

You’ve taken the classes and bought the toys. You’ve learned the techniques and acquired the tools. But no matter how much you learn, practice or fantasize, something just isn’t clicking. Playing with your partner is fun, but you know more is possible.

Other classes will teach you how to throw a flogger, tie someone up, or give a great blowjob. But how do you get a scene started? How do you know what your partner really wants? How do you get back on track when something goes wrong? And how do you stop worrying if you’re doing it right?

You know there’s something sexier, more fulfilling, more passionate… even transformational possible. Now, how do you get there?

The truth is, hot play isn’t in what cool tricks you know how to do, or how big and elaborate your scenes are. It’s not about check-lists or negotiation that feels like going to a lawyer’s office (unless that’s your thing, of course.)

In this 2-day, in-person intensive, you will…

Learn how to Make Hot Play Happen:

Discover the secret to creating great scenes and even better sex
Gain confidence in your communication and negotiation skills
Learn how to find out exactly what your partner is hungry for
Orchestrate exciting, passionate play that scratches the itch you’ve been dying for
Get clarity about what drives your passions… so you can play with them in rich, surprising and fulfilling ways
Use your fantasies and desires to foster more connection and intimacy between you and your partner
Harness your creative energy and hunger for power and surrender

Here’s just some of what we’ll cover:

What stops you from initiating play and how to turn that to your advantage
Stealth negotiation and how to generate scenes from everyday conversation
Transitioning from “regular life” to hot play
Prompts to help you create fun, sexy scenes that you’ll want to do again and again
Simple steps you can take right away to have more hot sex, more often
What to listen for so that you understand what your partner REALLY wants from your play
Lots of fun, low-stakes practice with creating scene proposals and negotiation
How to give feedback when something isn’t working (without killing the mood)
Reading non-verbal communication (and using it to both of your advantage)
How to salvage a scene that goes sideways
And much more…

Join renowned educators Marcia Baczynski and Midori for a weekend that will change your sex life forever, dedicated to helping you create the kind of mind-bending, earth-shaking play you’ve always dreamed of.

Space is limited. Register now:

San Francisco

August 5 - 6, 2017

New York City

October, 2017. Date TBD

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"My precious kink moms,

I gained so much from the weekend spent in your presence and am grateful for it. I learned that my own perceived limitations were holding me back from receiving and sharing in so much joy in many areas of my life. I learned why and how to stop desire smuggling. I learned to be patient and kind with myself when I do smuggle my own desire. I learned that saying "Thank you" during sexy times can go a long way...

A playmate of mine came over on Monday night. I asked for what I wanted, asked him what he was in the mood for right now and we played.For four hours. My orgasms escalated to somewhere over 20 and I stopped counting and just kept enjoying. When I asked for something in the moment and he provided, I thanked him and I could watch him get visibly more determined and entranced with the experience. It was fucking epic.

I scared the bejesus out of my roommate, but I didn't wake the kid so I'm calling it a complete win. I was slurring my words by the end and fell asleep in a heap. There were no plots, no fancy costumes, no exotic locales. We scheduled time, shared our desires, and made it happen in the moment.

Thank you for removing so many barriers to joy!"

-Dianna

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Hours of Instruction

Saturday

9:30am - 10am Check-in
10am - 6pm Instruction

Sunday

9:30am - 10am Check-in
10am - 5pm Instruction
5pm End of weekend

Program Includes

Coffee, tea & light snacks
Special workbook with original content.
If you'd like to bring your own snacks or foods, there will be a refridgerator to store them.
$50 Transportation Discount. Discount with Lyft! This is an excellent ride share service. We love them and find them better than Uber for cost and quality of service. It's also much better than most SF Taxi serivce.
- You will need a smart phone
- Go to your app store or www.Lyft.com to download the app
- Set up your account
- Use the discount code [ MIDORI273844 ]
- You'll get up to $50 in free ride credits

ABOUT THE INSTRUCTORS

Marcia Baczynski is a internationally recognized expert on sexuality, communication and personal empowerment who works to provide people with practical tools to create extraordinary relationships. Her primary mission is to help people overcome shame and get in touch with what they truly want — romantically, sexually and relationally — even if it’s off the beaten path. As co-founder of Cuddle Party, the creator of The Good Girl Recovery Program, a sought-after presenter and in her private practice, she has worked with thousands of people and made hundreds of media appearances across the globe. Marcia brings wisdom, humor, and creativity to all aspects of her work, and offers a fresh perspective on love, sex and relationships. When she’s not writing, teaching or traveling, you can find her out in nature, practicing her rope skills on boats or in the woods.

Midori is a renowned educator and writer on sexuality. Dubbed “the super nova of kink” by Dan Savage, she emerged from the Sex Positive Movement in San Francisco in the early 1990’s, soon becoming a much sought after international presenter on sexuality, personal fulfillment and kinky adventures. She founded ForteFemme: Women's Dominance Intensive & Rope Dojo®

Her reputation as authority and leading expert on alternative pleasures stem not only from her unique and entertaining process of teaching concrete skills, but in her ability to deconstruct and distill complex matters of desire into surprisingly accessible lessons with eloquence and humanity. She’s known for tackling challenging topics with fresh and relevant insights. She calls this her “head-heart-hands” method to create a space where people are allowed individual self-exploration. Fundamentally she is motivated by helping people to create authentic and intimate relationships while emphasizing self actualization, shame reduction, acceptance and justice. When she's not traveling and teaching, Midori creates provocative and haunting art and performances.